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    Motivation, What Makes Us Do What We Do – M. Browne

    May 2nd, 2012
    —Behaviors that are genetically transmitted from generation to generation are know as instincts. — Psychologists William James and William McDougall argued that people have instincts that foster survival and social behavior.
    Drive-Reduction Theory
    • —Formed by Psychologist Clark Hull in the 1930’s.
    • —According to the Drive-Reduction Theory, people and animals experience a drive arising as a need from an unpleasant tension.
    • —They learn to do whatever they can to reduce that tension by reducing the drive. Like eating to  reduce hunger.
    • —The body looks to achieve a state of equilibrium , or balance. The tendency to maintain this state in the body is called homeostasis.
    • — Homeostasis works like a thermostat in a home. Going through various stages of heating and cooling in order to maintain a set temperature.

    Humanistic Theory

    —The humanistic theory suggests that people are also motivated by the conscious desire for personal growth and artistic fulfillment.
    —Abraham Maslow concluded that people are willing to tolerate pain, hunger, and other tensions to achieve their artistic or political goals.
    —Maslow believed that striving to do, or be, something meaningful in life is essential to the human well being, just like food.
    —Many artists, actors, musicians, and writers commit to their goals even if they are unable to make a living by perusing their passions.
    —People strive to fulfill their capacity for self actualization. Self actualization refers to the need to become what one believe s he or she is capable of being.
    The Value of Understanding Sociocultural Theory

    The Sociocultural theory is the theory that focuses on the roles of ethnicity, gender, culture, and socioeconomic status in personality formation, behavior, and mental processes. The foods that people eat, they way they eat them, and different ways of greeting are all derived from culture.  For example coffee vs. tea, or hamburgers vs. tacos. J.K. Rowling began writing Harry Potter while she was on welfare. She incorporated some of the darker elements of her own life, like the loss of her mother and her battle with depression, into the series. Now she is worth an estimated $850 million dollars.

    The Secret to Becoming Motivated is…

    • —The secret to motivation is doing what you want to achieve, but everyone already does this.
    • —You already have the motivation to do what you think is important, so you do it.
    • — Everyone has different motivations based on what they think is important.
    • —Whether it is someone’s education, sports, art, music, or fashion, we all do whatever we think is important to us. Therefore, we are all motivated.

    What is your motivation? What motivates you is not what may motivate another. Surveying your clients, employees and members every year is crucial because motivation triggers do change from year to year.

     

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    Love, Love, and More Love By Tom Cunninghm

    October 2nd, 2011

    Of the ten basic motives that inspire all human action, love is probably the most powerful. More has been accomplished by people motivated by love for mothers, fathers, wives, husbands and children than any of the other motives.

    It is very common to see athletes, musicians, and business people purchase beautiful houses for their parents when they make it big. I recently read about Gene Simmons, the famous bass player and singer for the band KISS, and his devotion and love for his mother, a Nazi concentration camp survivor who brought up her kids as a single mother. Famous, and not so famous, people recognize the love their parents gave them and the sacrifices they made to get them to where they are and want to ensure their parents never want for anything again.

    Love for their wives has often been cited as the reason for the success of many men. Napoleon Hill wrote numerous times about the impact that the wives of the people he researched had on their success. Henry Ford and Thomas Edison had tremendously supportive wives and this propelled them to tremendous success, despite the many difficulties each of these men faced. John Wooden, the famous basketball coach, is well known for his love of his wife Nellie. Anybody studying John Wooden’s success will soon learn the importance of his wife Nellie to that success. I think of the story that Zig Ziglar tells of his friend Bernie Lofchick. Bernie became a wealthy, successful, business person because his son David was born with Cerebral Palsy. Bernie and his wife did everything they possibly could to make sure their son David had as normal a life as he could. Part of doing everything possible was earning an above average income to pay for the extensive therapy his son would need throughout his life.

    The motive of love can also help people endure tough situations for long periods of time. I think about single mothers who often work tirelessly and still manage to impact their children positively to become contributing citizens of the world. I think of parents who endure jobs they do not like so that their kids will have the best life they can possibly give them. I think of people who experience physical disabilities and challenges in their lives and their spouses make adjustments to their lifestyle and dreams to lovingly care for them.

    Think of the person you love the most in this world and who you would do the most for. If you were to find out that person would die in one year and suffer in the process, unless you earned say, $20,000 more in the next 12 months than you did in the previous 12 months, would you earn the additional $20,000? Would you sleep less? Would you watch television less? Would you waste less time? I believe that, if your love is strong enough, anyone could do it.

    Think of the people in your life that you love the most. Think of the needs they have. Think about how you could help them with those needs, big and small. Bringing happiness, joy, and comfort to loved ones can motivate you more than anything else in life to do what you need to do.

    The Power of the Right Coach – Denis Waitley

    September 29th, 2009

    Throughout history, most of the great achievements and incredible comebacks have been the result of an individual whose motivation to persevere was influenced by a coach or mentor. In science, art, politics, sports and business, there is a common thread of having been coached among those who achieve greatness. A coach doesn’t need to be a professional consultant or counselor. He or she could be someone within your organization or industry, or it could be someone from your personal life whom you respect or admire.

    A study was undertaken on the Hawaiian island of Kauai by two researchers named Emily Werner and Ruth Smith. This study, which followed more than 450 people from childhood through their adult lives, was an attempt to learn why some people are motivated to overcome severe disadvantages while others from the same background seem to have been overwhelmed by their problems. This research continued for an incredible length of time: 40 years, to be exact.

    According to the research, one of the most interesting qualities of these motivated individuals is their ability to recognize potential sources of support in other people, to look beyond the walls of their homes to find relatives, friends, teachers or other role models who can provide help. This very important finding illustrates the benefits of forming mentor relationships to encourage achievement.

    Choosing a coach or mentor is like having an additional correctional device to keep you on target. An analogy of this premise comes from aerospace technology. Years ago, the military used inertial guidance systems on missiles. Unfortunately, once the course of an inertially guided missile is set, it proceeds along that path with no capability for adjustments. It’s like a bullet fired from a rifle. Even when the aim is good at the outset, if the target moves unexpectedly once the projectile is in flight, the shot is going to miss. And if there’s one thing you can count on in life, it’s that the target is going to be moving! In the Gulf War of 1992, the Patriot missile that defended Israel and Saudi Arabia was introduced. Unlike previous defenses, this system had an advanced self-adjusting navigation system that continuously monitored the missile’s trajectory as well as the path of its swiftly moving target. The Patriot was able to make whatever corrections were necessary, regardless of changes in the position or speed of its objective.

    A highly motivated person uses a coach or mentor in the same way when he or she has targeted a worthwhile goal. A coach or mentor can assist you in making adjustments and navigating through difficult times.

    Finding coaches and mentors is an important mission, and you will no doubt have several over the course of your life. It is critical that you choose them wisely. Your mentor is someone to whom you’ll be committing a great deal of time and attention, and who ideally will take a very focused interest in you as well.

    Local blood drives offering incentives – By Alicia Hartgrove, The Herald

    January 7th, 2009

    The nation’s lagging economy has claimed another victim — the area’s blood supply.

    The New Jersey Blood Services is working with a three-day supply, which is considered critical, said representative Marie Forrestal.

    A 10- to 14-day supply is optimal, and anything below a five-day supply is critical, she said.

    During the last six months, local blood drives have been offering incentives to donors, such as gas cards, store gift cards, and even Mets tickets, to try and boost the number of donors.

    “We think of it as positive reinforcement for them doing their good deed, and blood centers all across the world have been giving their donors little gifts throughout the years,” Forrestal said about these incentives.

    While Forrestal said it was too soon to tell if the incentives have increased the blood supply, Mikki Carpenter, manager of donor recruitment at the New Jersey Blood Center, said, “We are not in what we would call emergency shortage.” One of the reasons for that, she said, is that “these promotions have brought in a good deal of blood.”

    The New Jersey Blood Center had a blood drive at Wal-Mart in Newton last week and gave out $20 Wal-Mart gift cards to all the donors.

    Maureen Scarpone, of Newton, stood outside of the bloodmobile thinking about donating her blood for the first time but the needle “kind of frightens” her. She did acknowledge the gift card persuaded her a little but she mainly came out because her friend was giving blood.

    “I just like to do it,” said Mary Sullivan, of Newton, who has been a donor for two years. Her first time giving blood was between college classes and she just thought “I’ll do it.” She said her decision to give blood “has nothing to do with receiving a gift card.”

    Heather Stromberg, of Budd Lake, said she tries to donate a couple of times a year ever since 9/11 happened.

    “It’s my blood so it’s nice to get a little something back,” said Stromberg, who said the incentives don’t decide if she donates or not, but they did sway her to come to that specific site.

    The incentives started when gas prices started soaring, Forrestal said, as a way to help make up for the increased cost to the donors to get to a blood drive.

    New Jersey Blood Services also started an online program called Red Cell Advantage about six months ago where anyone who gives blood automatically starts accruing points. A regular blood donation is 75 points and an automated red cell donation is 200 points. Donors visit www.mydonorrewards.com to track their points and pick gifts, which include an iPod car adapter for 400 points, a DVD player for 800 points, and the Wii video game “Rock Band” for 1,600 points.

    Carpenter said the incentives are to “entice new donors into the system … especially among minorities.” Encouraging members of minorities to donate blood is the center’s biggest goal, according to Carpenter, because some “minorities’ blood is somewhat rare.”

    A New Jersey Blood Services’ press release earlier this month stated a special need for Rh negative blood types. The press release also stated “about 50 percent of the blood donated in New Jersey comes from corporate blood donors … and the recent downsizing of many of our financial institutions will be negatively impacting blood collections for the foreseeable future.

    According to Forrestal, employees from Lehman Brothers, which declared bankruptcy earlier this year, used to donate 400 pints of blood each year.

    Principles That Govern My Life by Chris Widener

    December 4th, 2008

    The strength and durability of a building is found in its foundation. The same is true in a life. What we accomplish and the effect we have on those around us is not only in what we do, but also in who we are. In fact, what we do is driven by who we are, what we believe and value and by the principles that we live by.

    Principles give us direction in whatever circumstances we find ourselves in. They are transferable to any given situation and will determine our direction. Those who do not have permanent principles will find themselves drifting along and making decisions that are personally expedient, short-term oriented and usually bad for their long-term success.

    So I thought I would share with you the principles that govern my life. These are the ideas and concepts that drive my behavior, my career, and my family. I would encourage you to sit down and write out your own principles. Those that drive your life, or at least that you want to drive your life!

    God first, others second, me third. Gale Sayers, the running back of the Chicago Bears wrote a book titled “I am Third.” This is true. If I am to do and be what I want to do and be in this life, I recognize that I must have my priorities right. Some people think that the way to success is to put themselves first. This is short-term thinking. Yes, you may be able to accomplish much in the near-term, but long-term, the best is accomplished by those who live by the above.

    Always be completely honest. You really only have your character when it comes right down to it, and honesty is the quickest way to determine your character. Live in such a way that you can be completely honest and be willing to accept the responsibility that being completely honest will bring.

    Make it your goal to help others, income will come from that. Zig Ziglar is the one who got me thinking about that. If you take care of others and their needs, you will earn your income. If you simply try to earn income, people will stop responding to you and you will have defeated yourself.

    You reap what you sow. This is the most common truth on earth. You put an apple seed into the ground, you get an apple tree. An orange seed produces an orange tree. If you invest, your money will grow. If you eat right and exercise you will lose weight. If you are kind to others they will be kind to you.

    The true measure of a man’s wealth is in the things he can afford not to buy. This is one of my favorite quotes from Ralph Waldo Emerson. Things are great to have and so is money, but true riches are the priceless things we can’t buy, like our family, our integrity and the sense of a job well done. Pursue true wealth.

    Work smart – and hard. Some say you should work smart, not hard. I say work smart and hard. A good day of hard work is a blessing and ought to be appreciated. Hard work is what changes the world – as long as it is smart, hard work!

    Follow through on all commitments. If there is one thing I can’t stand it is when someone doesn’t do what they say they will. When we don’t do what we say we will, we essentially say that the job wasn’t important, the people we promised it to aren’t important, and that we can’t be trusted. This is a good way to short-circuit your success.

    Challenge others to greatness. There are enough people who will hold out the low bar for people to step over. I want to be a person who holds up the high bar, causing people to have to run and jump with all their might. And when they clear that high bar, I want to be there celebrating with them!

    Find ways to generously give of your resources. The old saying is true – you can’t take it with you. But you can spread it around to lots of people while you are here. If we wait until we die to give money away, we don’t get any satisfaction in seeing how it is used and enjoyed. Write a few good-sized checks each month!

    Treat people right no matter how they treat you. You cannot control another person’s behavior. It took me a long time to realize that. I can only control my behavior. And I can choose to do what is right no matter how another person treats me. If everybody retaliated every time someone treated them bad, we would have a mess on our hands. Instead, choose to act appropriately at all times.

    When relationships go bad, be the first to hold out the olive branch. Life is too short to leave a relationship broken. As much as it is up to me, I will pursue reconciliation, for their sake, and for mine. I don’t want to get to the end of my life and wish I tried harder in my relationships. For this reason I attempt to restore broken relationships.

    Regularly try new things. This is what keeps the spice of life going! Try new foods, go to new places, and make new friends. You will be amazed at the joy you receive and are able to give when you make it a habit to try new things. Break out of the mold, do something unusual today!

    Treat everyone equally. No one is better than anyone else. I know people with tens of millions of dollars and people who do not have two nickels to rub together. They are both equally valuable and worthy of being treated as such. Don’t fall into the trap of treating some people better than others. It doesn’t matter what color they are or how much money they have or what country they come from, treat them with the respect and dignity each human deserves.

    Use any success you have to help others. What good is success that only helps you? Instead, use the money you make to help others. Use the connections you make to help someone else up. Use the knowledge you achieve to give someone else a leg up. Take what you have and give to others so that they may join you on the journey of success.

    Look down the economic scale more often than up. When I look up the economic scale too often I become greedy and unsatisfied. I become selfish. Looking down at others who have less than me on a regular basis keeps me humble. It reminds me of all of the blessings I have and keeps me thankful for them.

    I want to encourage you to sit down soon and write out the principles that guide your life. It is an excellent exercise that will help you refocus and keep your life going in the right direction!

     
         
     

     
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